Fort Bragg – McNair Elementary – North Carolina
Nancy Welsh’s – Kindergarten Classroom
Nancy Welsh has a very unique classroom. She is located on the a military base and in her classroom, 14 of 17 students have one or more parents deployed in Iraq Afghanistan. Not only is this tough on the students, but she must learn to focus and adapt to the students current situation. Each students needs are different; some want to talk about it, others are quiet, some draw about it. Some of the children come to her in tears wanting to miss them, but she encourages the child to talk about loving the parent and not about missing or being away from them. She finds that singing songs helps the children deal with the situation they have been put in. Some of the students come to class sad, to which she has to let them know it is ok to be sad, but tries to get them to be a child and be happy. Many of the children are having trouble sleeping and it is affecting the child’s school. So, the teacher has the children draw pictures of what the students want to dream about thinking good things. It is important for Welsh to have a good parent-teacher relationship in this difficult setting. That way she knows how to deal with certain situations because some of the children know more about what is going on than others.
She is forced to deal with tough questions like:
-Will my daddy get killed?
Although she cannot guarantee that he won’t so she responds, “I hope not.” (She reminds the child that many soliders are there protecting each other and since he is with others and had good training). Also, she has to be honest, put information at their level, answer away from the group, because of the different levels of awareness about the war.

When you ask her class what the definition of Iraq is, they say “Freedom.” Hearing that from kindergarten students runs a chill up my spine. Knowing that they understand the real meaning of why their parent cannot be with them. They view this war through eyes that we all should, without the political outstepping.
Having children in her classroom that are dealing with military life is difficult. The children do not get to choose to have a parent in the Armed Forces. They are put into the situation unlike the parent who chooses the military life or the spouse who chooses to marry into it.
The most important thing Nancy Welsh must remember is to not take a stand on the war. She can neither support it, hate it, or ignore it. She must deal with the affects every day in her classroom.

http://johnmerrow.blogspot.com/
http://www.pbs.org/merrow/tv/newshour/lessons_of_war.html